Break-ups are a tough time. Knowing that next day you wouldn’t receive a good-morning text from your bae, and each and every second after, seems so long. And it seems that the female partners have a very rough time during and after break-up and that male partners feel, umm, nothing! Male symbolizes strength and power, masculinity, what will a break-up effect them? It wouldn’t cause a bit, isn’t it? Let me prove you wrong.
Males are secretive. They hide their feelings. You never know what they really are. Only when you have been with a guy so close, you can feel the blood flowing through his body, know the thoughts that runs in his mind, feel him, only then would you know that even though he might say he’s fine, he’s okay, he’s strong; he’s not!
- He’s not okay, when he says he is.
Even if he pretends that breakup hasn’t made him any lesser, weaker and that he’s enjoying every bit of his life; abort this illusion. He feels as worse and it’s hard to get through it. Pretending something he’s not, hurts even more.2. He has friends, family but not you.
He may hang out with his friends, stay with his family and meet people. Even though surrounded by people, he would still feel alone. Because the only person he needs, the only person who could make him feel better, is the person he can’t have, anymore. From the outside ” Yeah It’s so much fun with you guys “, from inside ” I feel so alone, only if I had her right now “.
3. Who cares if a guy is broken?
Yeah! So a guy is strong, he can handle himself, why would he need anyone? A man is never broken, after all he’s a man. Isn’t he a human being? When a guy is broken, he just hides it because he feels who would give a damn to a broken guy, some or the other day he’ll just get back.
4. Aggressive, even when they don’t mean to.
When guys over-care, more than they are supposed to, they get mad. It just happens. Why? Don’t know. If after breakup, a guy gets aggressive over things related to his love-life, it’s not because he hates it, maybe he misses it so much, he can’t cry, so he shouts.
5. He doesn’t want to look at you?
He doesn’t look at you because he has stopped caring for you? You have turned ugly? He’s moved on and probably dating someone else? And what not things a girl would have thought over this action of his. Maybe it’s just that it hurts. That face, which he used to keep looking all the time, and all those memories he ever had, it flashes right in-front of him.
6. Men don’t cry.
They do! Not in-front of anyone. When they reach the break-down, that moment they can’t hold anymore, they cry. Because they have been strong for so long, they can’t anymore. They lock themselves, cry out, and come out like nothing happened. It hurts but they do.
World’s not perfect. Men cry. Men get weak. They hurt themselves too. Break-up is as disastrous to them as it is to girls, or maybe even more.