“Are you single or committed?” This is one of the most frequent questions faced by the Youth generation. While this question usually results in a smile on the face of person belonging to later kind (which magnifies in the presence of soul mate), it aggravates the ones belonging to the single category. The ordinary perspective of the world always forces us to look ourselves in either of the two categories, and of course favours committed mode of relationship, thus making everyone to believe that “Singles are so, due to their own weaknesses”. This often depresses singles and led them to ask their innermost-“Why we are still single?” They start exploring answer to this question everywhere around the world and while getting influenced by others, they start to believe that there is some problem in their inner self only.
We all are aware of the fact that weakness is the last thing Youth Generation wants to see within them. Everyone wants to attain perfection, leaving no chance for others to outwit them anyway. Considering singleness as a weak point and to secure themselves, best way the lads find is to have a girlfriend anyhow. It’s ok if she’s not the one up to the mark of his aspirations. It’s ok if he doesn’t like her habits or her public behaviour. It’s ok, if he’s not able to devote his time to his dreams because of her. It’s ok, because with her, nobody laughs at him because of his singleness. It’s ok, because he has someone to spend time with on Valentine’s Day. Now, does it really seems ok to keep your girlfriend in deception of love, even if you don’t like her? It’s not, and if you are doing this, halt it immediately.
To all those who think that being single doesn’t let them look cool, sneak into the lives of all the successful personalities of the world. You will find, majority of them were single during their young age. Not, because they were weak, just because they were committed, with their dreams, with their desires. Moreover, they were Royal Gentlemen, who never found it wise to deceive a girl on the name of love. They were the ones, belonging to the third category, which can be named as “Royal Gentles”. So, it’s quite possible that you are still single because you are also the one belonging to this category, just take out some time for self-realization.
So, all the singles out there, next time when someone asks you “Are you single or committed”?. Don’t run away from the question or switch to other topic. Instead, revert back with your eyes high and reply- “I am committed” and start smiling over there baffled faces. And instead of feeling jealous or getting restless while looking at couples, start walking with your head sky-high with a cheerful smile on your face, elegant enough to show the world that you belong to the “ROYAL GENTLES”, i.e., the Third Kind.