If the most lovable movement of yours is when her hand is in your hand and her eyes lost somewhere in you and you both feeling the same then BINGO!
You are in love…
I am not a relationship expert neither a philosopher nor professor of the chapter named as love but, believe me, the points that I have figured out after interviews and my personal loss are the mistakes that I did, and I saw many others doing.
If you follow these, I can assure you will always be together and get a tag #madeforeachother. So this is Nikhil Attri sharing something that is quite important!
1. Don’t be an animal jam
I know you love your partner and you just want to be with him/her always, but chatting or calling him/her all the time is the way towards an end…!. Yes, you should make some routine or limit your chatting time, as a while you will get bored, and that so-called feeling of love will fade. It’s simple “Be far to come close.”
I personally experienced this law, and it works every time under same conditions. You can further test it by yourself.
2. Do things together
Spending time with each other tells your partner how much you care. But do some more creative things like suggesting TV shows watch and hearing the same music at the same time. Read same novels. These things will give you so many common things to talk about and your choice will become similar and you will be like soul mates, even if you are living far away!
3. Put some dirt.
Be more possessive. Crack dirty jokes, compliment each other’s dirty side. It is seen that sexual tension is one of the major problems as far as my thinking takes me. But my dear don’t forget sex is not only the biological need, but it is proved that it affects emotional side also, even if its the virtual or imaginary way we talk about here. So tease your partner in texts or talks. Compliment and share what you imagine in dreams…Grow up!
4. Plan a timetable
Yep! Ask your partner or his/her friends about his/her schedule. Update your knowledge about her important dates like exams or any upcoming competition or anything which is related to your partner. This will help you and you will know when your partner is free or busy or when to talk or when to avoid conversation otherwise, you will disturb him/her at the wrong time.
5. Be veracious.
This is one of the most important points be veracious, be real or be trustworthy, call it whatever but the meaning remains same.
You love your partner, you are planning for your future together and still you lie!
This simple fault of yours might turn into a great gap between you and your love as a smallest lie if revealed will force him/her to think of every sentence of yours again and there are chances that your partner might turn into a spy and attention! Even ACP Pradyuman is nothing compared to a doubtful partner…!
So it’s up to you want your partner stays like – “Ye Hai Ashiqui” or as “CID.”
6. Give buttery names
Giving a small cute name with extra cheese to your partner is the best thing ever! Your partner will be obliged to hear that cute name from you and it will feel like birds singing around, flowers falling, and the smell of wet soil…
Also, the name will always be with him/her forever.
7. Make memories!
Humans have a tendency to find meaning in each and every little thing. As human brain is designed to remember what it sees, so to be in your partner’s heart forever, give each other gifts as our feelings get attached to the smallest things given by our love..!
8. Use a cheesy app to chat!
As there are so many messaging apps in the android or Mac app store, so choose wisely a decent application full of cool stickers. My personal favorite is the ‘Hike’ as it has many cool stickers and is user-friendly.
9. Avoid double trouble!
Never ever hide things from your partner. But I know very well there are some secrets which you cannot open in front of your partner. So listen to me very carefully, if you are not telling your partner then you dare not tell this to anyone else because if that thing reahces him/her through a third person
Then! GAME OVER!
This isn’t a Mario game you will not get three chances to save your queen, not even two…!
10. Never be greedy.
Last but the main thing of the whole article. You can say that this is the master key
-“You showed need, it will be considered as greed”
Yes, never show her that you cannot leave without him/her otherwise you will get pissed off. As this is human nature that we do not care of what we are not afraid to lose. So spend your time with your friends, family as they love you without any condition. Join new hobbies, workout regularly as your body won’t ditch you…! And always make a plan B, as everything does not go the way we think…
No love is unconditional…
Love is when you hit your dog and he still comes to you,
Love is when your parents feed you and they starve,
Love is when someone is with you at your worst time,
Love is when you say bad words but still your partner is smiling,
Love is when butterflies start flying around and you feel Goosebumps in stomach..
!!! तुझे पाने की चाह में इतना कुछ खोया है
तू मिल भी जाए तो भी अफ़सोस होगा..
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By Nikhil Attri