Since I have more guy friends than girls I often hear them complaining about the fact how their girlfriends don’t really get them or how girls simply just don’t understand guys.
So are here few things girls should understand about guys and maybe this would make your relationship much less frustrating.
- Don’t just don’t try to understand guys, you never will: They are different and respect that, they have different DNA. Just like how you can’t understand the language of tigers and lions you can’t understand him either. Don’t over analyze guys it just doesn’t help.
- You Gotta Stay Away From His Internet Search History: You can’t handle it. It’s more or less the same for every guy, I bet you wouldn’t like your internet history to be viewed by others so why not give guys privacy?.
- You Can’t Change Him: I know that you know this intellectually, but on some level, you may still think you can pull it off. We girls believe we can change guys but remember you can’t and you shouldn’t. Why would you? And if you do manage to get it done, he’ll figure it out and resent you for it. Love him the way he is or not at all. You have to live life with whatever it is.
- Stop blaming him all the time: He may be wrong but not all the time, can he? Playing the blame game just makes the relationship toxic. Take good advice from friends but then again take the decision by yourself. Listen to him sometimes.
- Take care of him like his mother but don’t be his mother: Guys need to be taken care sometimes just like their mother but don’t be pushy and tell them what to do and what not to do. No one wants a bossy person around them.
- Believe him: When he says he loves you believe him, of course he does and that’s why he is up all night talking to you or telling you sorry thousands times because he wants to make it up to you. Don’t be pushy accept the truth he’s got a history and so do you. If you love him for who he is now, don’t worry so much about the steps he took to get there. Remember it takes time to built a relationship but a minute to break it off.
- Gifts: A guy’s gift maybe be thoughtless sometimes, but that doesn’t mean he didn’t try appreciate him for what he gave girl. Even if its a small pen or chocolate. Remember he may not knows girls inside out just like how you don’t know guys inside out./li>
- Looking at other girls: Every guy likes a girl who is confident about her relationship you should remember just because he looks at another attractive girl who just happens to walk past him doesn’t mean he is or would cheat on you. He loves you and is giving time to you, respect that. If he really wanted to be with that girl he would probably leave you at that very minute.So girls remember these simple and easy steps and have a happy go lucky relationship with any guy.