You go for dating, only to discover the person. We have all have confused dating to be a relationship. It’s just being at the superficial level, to see if you both farewell.
Only during the dating process do you understand the person and your needs. Then you realize whether it’s a green signal for the future. You can’t propose before dating. It’s just asking out.
Girls at this stage tend to analyze the guy in different ways. Some of the factors that girls should commonly focus on are:
1. Whether or not she is comfortable about telling stuff to him
Never in life do we like to stay around a person we do not like to talk to. So, it’s obvious that a person we fantasize about should be someone we can freely share our thoughts, fears and past with. Having a person who can be told everything gets us someone who understands us well and this level of understanding forms the foundation of any relationship.
2. The Smartness Factor
Be it any person; our colleague or boss, our cousin or some other relative, a friend or our boyfriend, all are judged on the basis of their knowledge, fiction, humor and other aspects of their personality. A smart man who is also presentable makes us comfortable with that person in public or around people we know.
3. Un-Awkward Silence
Silence is the language of love. So being silent, but not awkward around a person is undeniably a very happening moment.
4. Being a good human is a must!
Imagine staying with a person very loving and caring about you but rude and cruel to neighbors, city kids, your parents or some other people. Do you really think such a guy is the guy of your dreams?
5. Respects care and love her
Every girl wants to be respected, cared and loved by the people close to her. So naturally, the same is expected of her prince, possibly on a much greater scale.
6. Feeling of being special
Is it not obvious that a girl in love with a guy expects a little special attention and royal treatment from him? The very feeling of being special is delightful and amazing.
7. Freedom of doing girly things without criticism
Wouldn’t it be a dream come true if our man does shopping with us, helps us choose clothes or just enjoyed a gol-gappa siesta with us once in a while?
8. The Protective feeling
We’re all princesses and so all are protected and cared for since childhood. Our princess are so, required to do the same in a romantic way that we always know that there is someone to watch out.
9. Discussing even the most stupid events
Two people in a loving relationship must be best of friends. And best friends talk about everything; from the most important event to the stupid crap to each other.
10. Well, looks do matter!
How much ever sophisticated and ideal we may pretend to be, on some level physical appearances do come into the picture. It may vary from person to person, but looks of a person do create the FIRST IMPRESSION. And we all know the significance of the first impression.