Girls are precious to us.In the Indian society, they have been given great respect. In all religious books, girls are accorded the greatest respect. It is believed that a girl carries the moral values from their parents to their husband’s place and then carry forward them in their children. But the society is forgetting the way, how to treat a woman! We, on a regular basis, come across many incidents that one or the other way harass a woman or a girl. In fact since our childhood we are listening to all such stuff about a girl or woman.
But hang on! What about the males? Have you ever thought of what situations they go through? Or what are the problems faced by them in their lives?
Life isn’t easy for men too! They too have problems, rather many problems.
Starting from birth, problems start surrounding males. Off course, it is an old saying, but certainly true, that a girl won’t be able to look after her parents after marriage, so all the members of the house start expecting from this from an hour old baby boy! Poor guy! Just entered the world and started preparing to be the savior of his family. As the time passes, the expectations to start growing with the age of the boy. The mothers always want their boys to become the king of the world, but they forget that only one single king can’t control the world! However, no one can’t still change the perception of mothers.
It is believed that girls have to be given proper care when they start entering their adolescence. People are worst with girls, when in adolescence. No one can be trusted! But don’t you think same happens with boys. They too are humiliated, harassed, raped! However, I don’t think so that anybody has time to think even about such stuff. But boys are too raped, they too are unsafe. And you know what, they will never share such things with us, and the reason is also we people who have crafted the image of boys, men in such a manner!Somehow he crosses his adolescence; he is now further expected to be the most gentle and civilized person. But now the problem that arises is, the increase of pressure, expectation rather anticipation, and this is all because of a new member added in his life- “WIFE”. A girl comes to her husband’s house after marriage that is actually supposed to happen according to all religious cultures. Now this doubles the responsibility of a man. He has a new one to look after. Initially, the money he was earning was say for three people but now it will split among four people. And being a male in the family (nuclear family), he is the only one on whom the family members rely. And with the passage of time he has a baby and if it’s a boy, the process of expectations goes on.
It is never about bringing something out of no where but a point that we should always be aware of, that men too suffer! It’s just they never tell how they feel about it; they just keep fulfilling, whether it is his parent’s dream or his wife’s expectations or even his child’s wishes!