Valentine’s Day is round the corner and still many guys are single or ‘just friends‘ with their crush. No matter how much profound their hints are, girls miss them quite often. So here we are, your cupid, to help “her” decode these hints. We enlist for you the hints that guys give when they like a girl.
Initiating the “Talks”
He proposes to initiate a conversation whenever the moment is opportune. He tries to be prominent in the girl’s proximity. He keeps an account of the time when she is available or when she is online on social networking sites and notably a talk out of nowhere is often initiated by him. Also, these chats refuse to see an end and evidently irrelevant questions from him to get somewhere proves that he wants to be more than just friends with her.
He is overtly helpful. Being there each time when she looks to her side, a man who knows to get things for her; eagerness being his covenant and plight. Time, money and energy are a daily deposit to his investments in her. He is available at her beck and call, running errands for her without a thought or a sigh. Her concerns become his daily chores; going out of his way to ease out her snags.
Ooh The ‘Blush’
His incessant smiles in her company are quite a hint. Things might be usually casual but he keeps blushing in her company for no substantial cause. At each eye contact, he would smile for no apparent reason. This is his way of keeping things cool and hiding his own nervousness before her, while keeping her on her back foot.
Diabetes Is Gonna Get You
His world goes upside-down whenever she is around. He will be extra nice and sweet. He may be nervous around her, might make fun of her or try to ignore her, but he will always try to become the alpha guy. He shows himself tall before her like he is the only man present in the vicinity. He tends to appear more dominant in the crowd, demonstrating his best features, money, knowledge or anything that she may find attractive. He will always try to smell and look perfect when with her. He is much more groomed around her.
‘You’ – A Priority
He is very protective about her. He caters to her needs and cares for her. Pushing the crowd away and helping her pass, offering his coat when she is cold, making sure she doesn’t get hurt, fixing her fixes before his own; she is his priority. It becomes a daily routine to ask how she has been, inquiring about her safe journeys and returns, wishing her a safe health and a nice, happening day are among the many others. Also he keeps inquiring about her from her peers trying to figure out her likes and dislikes and her issues as well.
He is a bit closer than he should be. He faces her each time they talk. He leans in to hear what she has to offer. His torso is inclined towards her when they sit, gesturing his interest in her. He offers excuses to spend his time with her, to meet her, grabbing lunch together or going for movies (romantic), etc. He gradually steers the conversation from work to her and her personal life. He tries to give hints that she should be with someone who cares for her and probably suggests a change in venue from time to time, offering his company.
Opinions: “Jo Tera Hai Woh Mera Hai”
He tries to share similar interests with her. He agrees with everything she says, taking her side in any discussion and sharing the same opinion always. He keeps trying to make himself more likable. He reasons out with her, posing question at her and her friends. His gaze changes its course constantly from her eyes to her face, trying to anticipate her conception and fancies while keeping her allured in his conversations.
The points mentioned above hold true for people sharing a mutual interest in one another. Maybe it depends on how we perceive someone. A shared interest develops into courtship. But friends have a certain level of anonymous love which does not fall in this category. He may be a natural, profound friend who loves you wholeheartedly, not possessing the affinity spoken about here, but the one which is beyond comprehension. Look for signs and let your gut decide.