MY LIFE MY RULES….
Being a girl is definitely the world’s hardest job! Even if you try to peep inside her life… you will find more of dilemmas rather than decision…melancholies rather than happiness! We tend to feel that these things are with small town girls only! They come in city try to find a way between clashing thoughts of the orthodox society and the modernising world!!
This is a story of a 25 year old girl Ruchi, who was born and brought up in the city of Bhopal. She was an engineer graduate in Information Technology and worked for a software company and was currently living in Pune. When she was in college she was a very happy go lucky kind of girl! She was always surrounded by boys not because she was pretty just because she was so fascinating and full of life and everyone enjoyed her company!! Many People tried to stop her but she was that piece if wind, which can not stop flowing..!! Slowly and gradually this journey came to an end after four years of engineering! The young confident girl is now finally going to enter the wheel of actual materialistic life!!! She shifts to Pune after 3 months of completion of her final year of engineering. .
This city was full of people, who are in a hurry always! On seeing the big- big skyscrapers she was flabbergasted. The girls living in pune were independent and had their own free will on seeing then ruche felt this. She thought that they were all like her and no one would stop her here . she is the master of her own aspirations! This also made her feel as if she could conquer the world!
The first day in her office was amazing! She definitely stood out of the crowd because of her passion of learning the work. As she has constitutionally friendly… the first day only she made many male friends. There was an office party at night. She came late at her apartment. She she heard one of the neighbours pointing to her character! She felt bad then she realised that there is no difference between the mentality of people at any place. They remain the same. She thought that whatever which is seen is not true! People are not what they pretend to be! People show that they are heading towards modernisation and they are pace to pace walking with the world where every one has the same rights and there every one has freedom to express themselves. Every one has the right to live their own life!
She as depressed! Her roommate had gone through the same experience she told Ruchi that life is all about experience- some are good and most are bad! There always has been a conflict between social attitude and individual attitude. Social attitudes tell us to live our life straight these attitudes are formed by varying experiences of individuals so that others donot commit the same mistake. But life is not about walking straight iths about falling walking stumbling and also standing! All these will help us creating new experiences. These words gave a new energy to fight the world and live life in her way!