We all are so good at giving advice and airing out are opinions to others but when it actually comes to us we tend to ignore the same piece of advice. It’s time you finally wake up and know why actually a break-up takes place and what are the things you should really take care of post break-up.
Oftentimes, blindsided by love, we tend to get fascinated with the whole idea of a relationship. We forget the fact that what we actually need to do is focus on what is really going on in our relationship. We need to assess the growth of our relationship. When you go out with him/her, try to talk more with each other and simply don’t waste your time taking selfies! Any relationship is bound to end if you both keep it on a superficial level. Go into the depths, get to know each other thoroughly otherwise some very important traits in his/her character may get unnoticed.
We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It’s time to put an end to this. It’s time for us to let ourselves be loved
-C. JoyBell C.
- Please don’t sit and cry!
Remember, your sitting down and crying and starving and being in pain for that person is going to make no difference since the other person may not even care about the whole issue. All you got to do is cheer yourself up and move on.
Its all about the way we think. It’s all in our hands to make the difficult easy, its just in the way we handle it so please for god’s sake think about it .
- Communication on no means is acceptable.
We should not try to communicate with the other person irrespective of whatever it is. The relationship is over and we should accept it and move on. There’s no use of trying to solve anything when you know that trying to solve it would do nothing but deteriorate the situation even more.
- Please don’t try to seek attention!
Asking him/ her for their attention is basically of no use. If the person genuinely loves you he/she would shower you with all the attention you need without you asking for it. When they are not right for you, that’s when they tend to not pay attention and moreover forcing anyone to seek their attention is in itself a very embarrassing gesture. It will only make you feel vulnerable.
- Stay away from social media for sometime
No amount of sadistic posts or cursing your ex partner or talking about the relationship is going to make things alright. Make sure you tell your friends and family what exactly you need because it’s only them who can can make you feel alright at the end of the day. So you have to be clear on what you want from them. If you want space, simply ask them for it.