Relationships are golden
But sometimes they are blue
and if you don’t know the difference
the fault lies in you!
We start out romantic and passionate, we like each other’s company. Then we start drifting away without any good reason, then we adapt to each others habits, the fights, the casual romances like things have always been the same. But somewhere in our minds someone is screaming! He is not the one for you, please get out. We die a little more everyday without ever questioning and realizing that we have been trapped for a long time, just because of lack of reasons to leave. So before its too late its good to make a conscious choice. Here are the…..
9 Signs that you have been trapped in your relationship!
1. You feel lonely even with him around…
In the beginning when he was with you, its was all you ever needed.But now it feels like empty air surrounds you, and you look everywhere else except at him while talking, like your eyes seek something else…
2. You don’t want to share things with him anymore
Earlier, you wanted to share even the tiniest of change or event in your life. If anything happened he would be the first person who’d pop into your mind to tell! but with time it became lesser and lesser important to tell him things, you both carry on with your lives like two parallel rail tracks.
3. You dont find his life as interesting as you use to
In the beginning you enjoyed your differences, you found him funny laid back and cute but now his jokes sound lame, his laid back is lazy and cute is simply pathetic! He just looks plain and non interesting.
4. You feel disconnected
The twin connection, the spark that pulled you towards him is now just gone! and you wonder why you liked him in the first place (its a blunt statement i know, but all of us think that at some point!).
5. You get angry at small things
Even the smallest of things like leaving the toilet seat up can put you off and make you go super psycho on him! Even when you are not PMSing you feel pissed off around him, its a signal that somewhere in your heart you want out.
6. You don’t feel like yourself anymore
You feel like you have lost yourself way back in the relationship, you think about your previous lively self and take pity on the whining, obnoxious person that you have become.
7. You don’t feel like jumping at him anymore!
No more does he look like the most attractive man on earth. The honeymoon phase has passed and there’s barely an cuddling or kissing going on.
8. You look for reasons to stay
Finally when your mind gives in the thought of leaving, you think about reasons to stay.Like the last resort it runs to all the initial picture perfect memories so you can save youself from the hurt of a failed relationship.
9. You can’t leave because you know he doesn’t deserve to be left
Even though you’ve had terrible times but deep inside you know its nobody’s fault. He is still a good guy who has done nothing wrong and does’t deserve to be abandoned just because you grew apart emotionally.
If you are facing these feelings its time to seriously reflect and reconsider your relationship, be open with your significant other with these feeling and know if he feels the same. Give it another chance or forgive, forget and start new!
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