If you fall in love with a person and later you come to know the flaws about that person, what would you do? Leave him/her or stay with him/her and make them believe in themselves and tell them they will going to defeat this and win over it.
It happened in ’50 first dates’ (2004). It is American Romantic Comedy film. Henry falls in love with Lucy on his first date without knowing about her. Later, he comes to know that she had met with an accident and due to that accident she had a brain injury and she fails to form new long-term memories. She forgets everything whenever she sleeps and starts the new day as nothing happened yesterday. Henry was really disturbed when he comes to know that. Instead of leaving her, he makes her fall in love with him every day.
Here are 15 things we can really learn from the movie.
1) Sometimes, being sarcastic may help.
When Henry tries to converse with Lucy the very next day, unaware about what Lucy is going through.
2) Confess your love.
When Henry comes to know about Lucy, he confesses his love every day and make her fall in love with him.
3) If you love someone, don’t let them go.
Henry was really tired of trying but he never let his love go away. He found new ways to impress her. He won her heart and love her so much.
4) Making someone laugh can be a turn on.
Any girl would prefer to live with a guy who can make her smile even if she don’t want to. Henry gave many reasons to Lucy, to smile for.
5) You would automatically become happy when you see the one you love.
Lucy’s father was tough, but he knows what is right for her daughter. He came to know that his daughter is deeply in love with one whom she forgets the next day.
6) If you have feelings for anyone, don’t friend zone them.
Sticking your feelings in your heart won’t help you either. Confessing them is always a right decision. Although Lucy doesn’t have any idea that she is sharing a relationship with Henry, but somewhere in her heart knows she is in love.
7) Feelings are meant to be express.
Each day, Henry tries to tell her how much he love her. He knew that she will forget everything on the next day but still he have hope. So, express your feeling because you never what tomorrow holds for you.
8) It’s all about fate.
It’s always easy to quote, ‘It’s all about fate’, but fighting for your love makes some sense. Henry tried really hard to achieve Lucy’s heart.
9) At times, it is really important to say I love you to your partner.
Saying ‘ I love you’ hundred times a day, will not prove that you are in love with that person. Instead saying ‘I love you’ with a deep love and intensity in your voice.
10) The first kiss is always special.
Kissing your partner is always special.
11) Your heart knows everything when your brain stops responding.
Lucy disremember everything happened the last day, but still she dreams of Henry.
12) A first last kiss will always keep the essence of love.
For Lucy, every day is just like a clean slate. She doesn’t what relation she shares with Henry. For her, it is just the first kiss.
13) Support your partner in his/her bad and good times.
When your partner is in a dilemma he/she needs a mere consolation from the other and wants to listen ‘Everything will be okay’. Henry found a way out. He prepares a video, which describes Lucy’s past and support her by saying, ‘Everything is going to be ok’.
14) When you are in love, you really don’t care for what is right and wrong.
Henry knew that Lucy is suffering from chronic injury and it might be possible she won’t get stable ever. Despite the fact, he chooses to be with her.
15) Every day is a new day.
Every day has new starting. Henry prepares videos for her and kept those near her bed.
If you ever find a man like Henry, girls never let them go.
The article is contributed by Ankita Aggarwal. She is doing B.tech from JECRC University. She believes, “Do whatever you really want to and make your life worth”.